Become Web Dead

The Scenario

So you went a little nuts on your MySpace profile - you posted your age, your interests, some of your funniest home movies and the secret spots you like to frequent on Saturday following your morning dog walk. It felt freeing and liberating to tout your spot in this world and advertise your status to your online “friends”.

And it exploded from there: you started posting in public forums without hesitating to include your full, given name (so you can get credit for your impassioned responses), then proceeded to open numerous accounts on the Facebooks, Friendsters, LinkedIns and Meebos of the world. You even dropped your digits at one point on Craigslist, where they remain cached to this day on Yahoo!. There’s no question about it: you’re now officially “out there”.

But as your friends began to accumulate and as your forum posts became popular (and distributed), your online presence began to balloon to uncontrollable (and uncomfortable) proportions. Personal commentary, asides and intimate information usually reserved for loved ones was now on public display - an inadvertent consequence of your own making.

And with the recent advent of employers checking potential job candidates online before making their hiring decisions, it might be wise for the current job-seeker to first pull those incriminating pix from that week in Vegas before going in for an interview: because what
in Vegas,
stays online.
because what happens in Vegas, stays online.

But what can we do? Is the Internet simply an information black hole that sucks up personal data, disseminates it to page after page and never lets go?

Not exactly.

There are some practical steps a savvy surfer can take to prevent (and reverse) the “morning after” effects associated with putting TMI on the web.

Becoming “Web Dead”

[Track your online profile: Start by performing an Internet search for your name on all known search engines to get a feel for the damage. Use quotes, "John Hancock" and if you have the time, go through ALL of the returned search results. Make a reference file with the results that point to you.]

Custom Search

1. Delete What You Can First

Deletion is the first reactionary response to get rid of your unwanted personalities online, but the procedure may not be as straight forward as it seems. Signing up for online services can be a contagious affair, and we often forget the countless accounts we’ve created in haste.

A simple remedy, and prescription in going forward, is to create an Account Sheet (hard copy) detailing the URLs at which we’ve lifted our proverbial Internet legs.

Commonly forgotten repositories of information include Flickr (and associated comments), old blogs, online resumes, FS (for sale) advertisements on non-expiring websites, want ads, personal ads, geneology webs and bartering sites. Trying to delete profiles on social networks like Facebook are an exercise in futility unless you know the ins and outs of the deletion procedure, detailed here (ironically a procedure written by a group on Facebook itself).

2. Use Webpage Removal Request Tools

Google and Yahoo! and have implemented “Delete URL” functionality for website administrators. This means that if you are a webmaster (or blog owner), you now have the power to stop specific URLS from being indexed (using a Robots.txt file). Non-admins also can also take advantage of these tools and request that “private” information be taken down, or request that webmasters use the aforementioned to remove the pages with your name from indexing. includes an “AskEraser” that will completely delete your search queries and data from servers, including: your IP address, User ID and Session ID cookies, as well as the complete text of your search query–all within a matter of hours:

Tool Links: Google Yahoo! Ask

3. E-mail Webmasters Directly

For the uninitiated, the mere mention of a webmaster conjures up images of reclusive talismen, shamen or any other untouchable overseer who is beyond the reach of a simple e-mail. For larger enterprises, this may almost be a reality - but the fact is: webmasters are people too (most of them). In many cases, if a reference to your name occurs on a blog or website that isn’t agreeable to you, a simple e-mail to the site’s webmaster will fix the problem in short order.

Occasionally you’ll encounter websites that tuck away any type of contact information, making it nearly impossible to find an administrator’s e-mail address or phone number. By using the publicly available WHOIS service, you’re able to type in the website’s domain (e.g. and fetch domain registration information, including contact information. If e-mail isn’t available, write a well-worded (firm) snail mail letter to the address on file about taking your name off of the offending site.

4. Employ ReputationDefender

“Desperate times call for desperate measures”, don’t they? Well this California-based company seems to operate by this motto. ReputationDefender was founded in an effort to protect your good name on the Internet. Did someone hack America’s Most Wanted and put your mug on display? Are you unable to persuade a webmaster to remove your information no matter how many times you say please? This is where the company steps in and takes the wheel.Reputation Defender

From their website:

Our goal is straightforward:

  • To SEARCH out all information about you and your family throughout the Internet and present it to you in a clear, easy-to-understand fashion
  • To provide DESTROY assistance, helping to remove, at your request, inaccurate, inappropriate, hurtful, and slanderous information about you and your family using our proprietary in-house methodology. This same mission extends to your personally identifiable information, like name, address, and phone number.
  • To deliver CONTROL over how others are able to perceive you on the Internet

5. Hide Your Ass

Well, in this case both figuratively and literally. Hidemyass is a proxy service similar to iBypass (covered in a previous SMASHgods post), aimed at hiding your online identity. You can use the service to hide your IP address and bypass your work/school web filter with relative ease.

Hide My Ass

Surfing anonymously won’t eliminate or delete information that is currently on the web, but it will prevent your IP from being broadcast to sites you frequent, and from providing analytics programs from determining who you are or where you’re coming from. If your goal is complete web death, you’re going to want to walk as lightly as possible during your surfing sessions: this will do it.

6. Always Use Pseudonyms

This almost goes without mentioning, but you’d be surprised at the overwhelming number of novice computer users who feel an undeniable compulsion to use their real name when posting something ot the Internet. It’s almost as if they feel that writing something on a website is the real-life equivalent of writing a personal check at the supermarket; that it’s a legally binding contract.

To simplify things, come up with a standard pseudonym, and create an accompanying e-mail address when you post your opinions, rants, sultry pics or other juicy tidbits you wouldn’t want to fall into the hands of your employer or a state official with skulls to crack. Hide your ass while you’re at it (see #5).

7. Contact

At this point, consider this bringing out the big guns. Chilling Effects valiantly dedicates itself to fighting for freedom of speech online and to educating Internet users about their rights. They also feature a form you can utilize to send a cease and desist notice to a site owner who won’t comply with your request to remove your name from a particular site.

Chilling Effects

Here is the link to the C & D form.

8. RemoveYourName

A somewhat pricier, but guaranteed service is According to their site, the RYN team will not stop working until your name is off of the major search engines, and their work is backed by a money-back guarantee. This will be a one time process.

Remove Your Name

Their prices start at $795 for Personal use, and go up to $2495 for the full-on business package.

9. Pull the Ol’ Switch-a-Roo

So your vicious rants have made the rounds of the web and now they’re all over. You don’t want to pay for some of the premium services in getting your bad name expunged from public record, yet you don’t want to live with the consequences of the malicious lies posted on the bathroom walls.

So why not post positive information to counteract the negative?Switch-A-Roo

Companies like ComplaintRemover, RepSavior and others are dedicating themselves to this very idea.

When negative Internet postings show up on the first page of Google, MSN and Yahoo it can be damaging to your reputation as a person or business!

We specialize in moving those negative listings aside and replace them with positive information about you or your company! Dont be held hostage by negative Internet listings.

You can actually do this type of thing yourself through Wikipedia. Make a page dedicated to yourself or your company (who could do it better?) that illustrates your grace and godliness. With Wiki’s reach and rank, your post will appear above the other negative slop in no time.

10. Stay OfflineUnplug Computer

No joke. Resisting the urge to reveal sensitive information is like a bad case of Tourette’s for some people, and like two children who can’t keep their hands off one another, separation may be the only way to go. Spend some time away from the computer and do something constructive with your time.

Deny the impulse that drives you back into the forums to post that recent pic of your Tijuana excursion with the guys. Once you feel you’re ready, tip-toe back into cyberspace by limiting yourself only to selected websites that don’t encourage or have the capacity for naughtiness or defamation. You’ll thank yourself later.

So there you have it, 10 rays of hope in a world of ever-increasing threats and decreasing privacy rights.

However, we may not have to fight such a steep uphill battle for long. A European Commission Advisory body feels search engines should delete personal data held about their users within six months. This recommendation is likely to be accepted by the European Commission and could lead to a clash with search giants like Google, Yahoo and MSN. How will this affect North America and the majority of the workhorse servers?

Only time will tell.

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Comment by Patty M.
2008-09-02 23:14:37

Excellent article and very helpful information. There are so many ways to put your name on the internet but not many ways to get it off. Thank you! :)

Comment by Jacob from JobMob
2008-09-23 07:23:36

Regarding #9- Read this before using ComplaintRemover (if possible, seems like they’re offline):

Good writeup, the account sheet is a nice tip and the links were helpful.

Comment by Witchy
2008-09-28 09:15:19

What a great article. I appreciated the links and the advice and have directed my readers here, too.

Comment by Anon
2008-09-28 17:12:52

No matter what you do, if it’s online, it stays online. Sorry.

Comment by freedom
2008-10-12 06:02:40

Sure, but the search result does not. archive dot org isn’t in google.

Comment by toyssets
2008-09-28 22:25:48

Excellent article. Learned something new again.

Comment by Pawan
2008-09-29 05:35:13


Good work you done friend, Your article is excellent

Comment by Dan Butler
2008-09-29 14:54:29

“You can actually do this type of thing yourself through Wikipedia. Make a page dedicated to yourself or your company (who could do it better?) that illustrates your grace and godliness. With Wiki’s reach and rank, your post will appear above the other negative slop in no time.”

Yeah, until somebody noticed you’re not important and sets the article for speedy deletion under the notability rules.

Comment by Goji Juice
2008-10-09 06:05:00

Nice and informative article…

Comment by Emma
2008-10-16 11:57:18

Nice, informative article - I guess I better start by eliminating my embarrassing middle school forum posts…*shudders*

Comment by Jacob from JobMob
2008-10-23 13:52:56

Based on some of the sites listed above, I just posted 150+ Resources and Tips To Help Manage Your Reputation Online.

Comment by fdghfgfasds
2008-11-10 02:39:19

“To simplify things, come up with a standard pseudonym, and create an accompanying e-mail address when you post your opinions, rants, sultry pics or other juicy tidbits you wouldn’t want to fall into the hands of your employer or a state official with skulls to crack.”


Don’t use a STANDARD psudonym. If it’s a very rare pseudonym and someone knows your pseudonym on one site they can even more easy dig up information about you than if you had used your real name.

Comment by amir
2008-11-20 06:38:03

Very informative. Thanks bro..

Comment by education in India
2008-12-21 21:36:21

excellent information in the article

Comment by Phaoloo
2009-03-01 05:02:16

Nice steps :D

Comment by shoaib2k2
2009-03-11 17:53:24

Useful Info Thanx

Comment by Borellus
2009-03-12 10:27:43

Thank you for the useful information :)

Comment by Striker
2009-03-25 02:00:37

Very informative. Good article :-)

Comment by vertjaars
2009-04-08 14:13:46


Don’t use a STANDARD pseudonym. If it’s a very rare pseudonym and someone knows your pseudonym on one site they can even more easy dig up information about you than if you had used your real name.”

It would be no easier than finding a real name, and the point is that your pseudonym is not connected to a real name.

Comment by Reasonable Robinson
2009-05-06 11:23:44

I wondered when they would catch on to me.

Gordon Brown PM
You Tube

Comment by nev
2009-05-13 02:58:52

top articles some good reading

Comment by Doctor
2009-05-22 10:00:37

Very informative as to how to become an internet ghost. Lots of people I am ducking…

Comment by Mr Ostrich
2009-06-07 12:10:02

Correct me if I’m wrong, but it seems that this article’s philosophy is - it’s unsafe in the online world, so better use “virtual condoms” to keep you safe.

While most of the info in the article can be useful for many individuals, I am asking myself: What will Online World (and the Real Worlds as well) of Tomorrow be like?

An open space of no-boundaries (if one wishes to), or a “24/7 surveillance enforced zone” (hopefully not by MS).

Maybe, as a more balanced solution, there should be more features (cross-platform-site-api) that allow users to set the amount of personal info they’re giving away. And make it real simple to manage.

Comment by ProfessorX
2009-07-08 16:25:33

Good page; however I tried to use their steps to eliminate my Drivl account, to no avail. Stonewalled from contacting Drivl from their site,(no “contact us tab)
Info from Go Daddy where the domain name is registered, yeilded (supposedly) the originator of Drivl’s address; I tried to go there, only to find myself on yahoo search pg. (no result with the address given)

Hmmm snail mail???

Comment by mike
2009-10-30 09:57:45

this would be very hard to do for some people whose identity is embedded in the net

Comment by mike
2009-10-30 10:12:01

might be next to impossible if you have ever owned your own website or done any business online

Comment by Brad Storch
2009-10-30 12:32:16

sorry, but if you put your real name in a public place, you can expect it to stay there. It’s your own fault if you decide you don’t want it there. Try and think ahead in future.


Comment by anon
2009-12-14 17:25:03

Reputation Defender sucks.

Comment by CdnGuy
2010-01-31 07:18:56

There’s another site called Web Suicide 2.0 that helps to eradicate your online presence. I haven’t used it, but it looks interesting.

Comment by Zach
2010-04-20 09:47:27

Use Anonymizer to hide your IP address and protect your online identity.

Comment by Brad Bauerly
2010-04-21 05:19:05

Very good advice. Anyone know of any open source programs to spread positive/benign posts with ones name?

Brad Bauerly

Comment by Brad Bauerly
2010-04-22 18:07:31

Does this really work?

Bradley Bauerly

Comment by Lasse
2011-02-02 16:26:27

Decent advice, but in reality, hiding your identity (and not just the occational hickup) is usually a very difficult task. Often impossible. But hey, it can’t hurt to try!

Comment by Brenda Lee Ayala
2012-07-19 16:31:11

I am a writter, in hopes of becoming a published author in the near future. I will be back to NYFA soon,Recent events involving e-impersonation etc… Are making me consider dissapearing off the online world for a while,there are some bad souls out there ready to dim your shine and do their best to stain your reputation, sadly the most powerful way to harm someone’s reputation this days is “through the web”. and criminals know this.Search engine’s should understand how helpless one feels when our information is misused in a malicious unauthorized matter, as a writter this hurts me greatly. but Again I cherished every experience I encounter in my early road as a writter.

Comment by Brenda Lee Ayala
2012-07-19 16:39:10


Comment by Uk Paid Surveys
2012-09-10 09:10:50

I do agree that once your online, you stay online. Good site though and good article. Thanks

Comment by Lewis Chaney
2013-01-05 01:46:39

Good article. HideMyAss is quite good, but their prices are too high for VPN subscription.
I’m using Cloudnymous ( and their cloudy pricing model is perfect for my occasional usage.

Comment by Artful Dodger
2015-04-11 10:10:02

would it be easier to change your name legally so that people don’t know how to search for you when you’re applying for the new job?

ie, instead of trying to delete yourself from the web, delete your ’self’ from the world by taking a new name.

just a thought.

Artful Dodger

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